Advice

Have you ever dealt with an avoidant? My ex and I broke up about a month ago and as I was trying to move on. But he kept messaging me. We’ve been “hooking up” for 2 weeks now. (Every time i ask he says it’s not a HU).

Anyway, as soon as i show any affection or care he gets distant. He’ll ignore me for hours. But if I pull away he becomes more interested suddenly.

We aren’t in a relationship but i’m not allowed to message or see other men. He has his previous ex’s and other girls on Snapchat (and all other socials).