You've probably heard this question many times now

I (26F) have two children under the age of 3 with a man I am no longer with. The last time we had ssx , I was ovulating and feral lol. But i have noticed, my body is rejecting him. Another story for another day, sum it up, im not attracted to him anymore. I've only been with men my whole life. Feels like the norm, idk. I've tried a dating app 4 years ago, met a woman, we went out and hung out. At first i was soooo nervous and i didnt feel sexually or physically attracted to her when we chilled at her house. But when i got drunk we made out at the bar and i enjoyed it. I still fantasize about it, her lips were so soft. The best kiss ive ever had if im being honest. We don't talk anymore, but i have hit her up on the dating app again and when she told me she moved back home states away, i soon after deleted the app because I felt guilty i was "moving on too soon" from my children's father. But lately, i've been daydreaming about women. I mean ive always admired butts 🤣 like amazed at how plump or big or toned. But ive not been admired by anything else on a woman i dont think. But when i daydream, its always me and a woman doing our skincare together, getting in bed, cuddling and talking about our day. And falling asleep together. And i like seeing that more than i would with a man. I've even gotten to the point, ive had 2 total dreams about being romantically attracted to a stranger who is a woman. And 1 dream about my ex friend but i never found her attractive whatsoever. Literally, ive maybe thought about a threesome with her and my children's father because she kept talking about how she used to be in a poly relationship with a married couple and she enjoyed sex with women (she's pan). I'm off and on about my sexuality, for years actually. But ive only found men attractive enough for me to date. I'm confused, what should I do?

Posted Feb 26, 2026, 2:04 PM UTC

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