Is conditional Natalie's just r/childfree?

Of course I like seeing all kinds of antinatalists in this sub. It keeps the discussions much more alive. But maybe some of the conditional natalists would find themselves relating to r/childfree more than r/antinatalism. If conditional natalism says "It is not unethical to have kids in some situations", who decides these situations? And how long until this starts getting into eugenics? Between 2 situations: A) Parents having a kid in a poor, war torn, heavily patriarchal and religious country B) Parents having a kid in, let's say, Norway Do you think these two are equally unethical or is one more unethical than the other?