36 [M4F] #NYC - Craving a girl who’s as into long, slow oral sessions as I am (edging, worship, no rush, no PIV)

Hey,

36M here, pretty laid-back dude who actually likes talking and getting to know someone before clothes come off. I’m not in a hurry—honestly, the best part for me is building that vibe first: good chats, laughs, making out like we’ve got all night.

What I’m really missing (and thinking about way too much lately) is finding a girl who gets off on giving long, teasing, worship-style head. Like, we’re just chilling on the couch or bed, music low, and she’s down there for 45 mins to an hour+ taking her sweet time—slow licks, sucking softly then harder, playing with my balls, letting me leak precum all over her tongue, edging me until I’m begging or shaking. Eye contact, moaning like she loves the taste, mixing in kisses or her stroking me while we make out. Deepthroating’s cool if it happens naturally, but what really does it for me is pure enthusiasm and taking forever to build it up. I had an FWB years back who was obsessed with this exact thing, and it was the most chill, mind-melting experience—way better than rushing to sex for me.

I’m 100% down to give it right back. I love eating pussy for just as long—slow, teasing, edging her too, 69 where we both just lose ourselves in it. Hands everywhere, fingering, jerking each other off while we kiss. But full-on penetrative sex isn’t my thing here—no PIV, just focused on the oral play, hands, mouths, all that good edging/milking stuff. I’m into being edged forever, ruined orgasms where I barely get there and it’s frustrating/hot, post-orgasm torture (keep going when I’m super sensitive), watching precum drip while she milks me slow. If that turns you on too, even better.

About me: clean, respectful, good hygiene, 420 friendly if you are. Can’t host but I’ll travel around NYC or tri-state no problem. Bonus if you’re affectionate—cuddling, talking shit after we’re both spent, maybe smoke a joint and chill.

If you’ve got an oral fixation, love the idea of spending a lazy afternoon or evening just worshipping each other’s mouths/hands, getting sloppy and teasing until one (or both) of us can’t take it anymore… hit me up. Tell me what gets you wet about long oral sessions, your favorite ways to edge a guy or be edged, whatever you’re craving.

No pressure, just looking for someone equally passionate about this specific vibe. Let’s see if we click 😏

Looking forward to hearing from you.