44 [M4F] UK - sweet and spicy musician looking for that person

I'm a UK based, creative, intelligent (even geeky), musical guy looking for that elusive OA connection that can light up my day and my life, and I hope to do the same for you.

It is not my first rodeo here, but I would like it to be my last. Experience tells me that is probably optimistic... but go on, prove me wrong, pretty please! I have experienced the highs a great OA can offer, which makes it all the harder to face my current life struggles without the right online partner.

I'm looking for a genuine, caring, funny lady to share my virtual days and evenings with, wherever possible. I totally get that your real life and family come first, and mine will too, but the odd message every 48hours is not going to satisfy my craving for your attention, and I won't sit quietly waiting for you to reply. If me bugging you is going to be annoying... don't message me.

In return, I offer a listening ear for any and all of your problems, a kind, supportive and caring heart, an understanding of your situation, a dry sense of humour, voice notes, pictures and maybe even the odd song. But if we click and you're open to it, the sky is the limit really.

If it matters to you, I'm slim to medium build, 5'10, green eyes, short dark hair and often a beard too. I am not going to list a set of physical requirements, because that really doesn't matter to me as much as the type of personality you bring, and that we connect. But I do like curves and plus-sized ladies are very much encouraged. I like someone who isn't shy, but can be sensitive. Who knows what they want and isn't afraid to say it. Who can laugh as easily as they cry, and isn't scared of big feelings. But I'm always open to discovering new people and personalities, so if that isn't you, don't be put off either.

If any of this appeals, please message away. I'll be waiting!