Fact about ABBY
Alot of what is wrong with Abby, comes from how she was raised. She dropped several EXTREMELY LARGE clues to us: 1. The BIGGEST was when she told us that her father actually had her mother "name her after the prettiest girl he had ever dated"... Think about that. How emotionally immature and selfish a person has to be to have a DAILY LIFE LONG walking living breathing reminder of how his current wife will never measure up to his ex girlfriends appearance. That's just 1 !!! She claims she was a daddy's girl but while saying he told her often how dumb she was - so if she was a daddy's girl I don't want to imagine what her mother must have said to her growing up. Abby is very emotionally immature selfish person and it was gained from her parents. No one has ever approached her correctly to be successful in chopping her down to size and explaining to her that her skill set - that has launched her to the position she's in - has absolutely nothing to do with her personality & the person that she is and why other people reject her constantly.
Or maybe they have and that is why she is alone and has never been married or had children and maybe no one has succeeded in doing so.
The other dance moms understood some of this about her but their anger never allowed them to convey that message in a constructive way and probably would not have been the same coming from them considering how Abby always felt attacked by them getting defensive rather than listening.
I do strongly believe.... That Abby Lee Miller, has a personality disorder along with some serious underdeveloped emotional issues topped with an over-inflated ego of course
Posted Feb 28, 2026, 1:17 PM UTC