Serious question. Have you had Condoms come off?

They are on correctly, I'm just rather thick. I got some Magnum XXL as regular is too tight to get past the head.

The XXL does somewhat slide down half way but is an admitted struggle. I will get it to the base of the shift but if I'm not holding it on, if the woman is very tight, they have rolled back up, and had to find them inside her. Lube doesn't help, just a bad fit cause these are realistically too tight on me.

No not click bait, 56M, just seems 1 night stands or finding swinger couples is easier than finding a real relationship, and gotta cover up.

Any solutions?