10 year anniversary trip: starting from scratch

My husband and I will be celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary next March (2027). We would like to take a week long trip somewhere, but we have no idea even where to begin. This is what we are looking for…

- amazing food (I’m a food snob)

- spa options like massages

- prefer adults only or somewhere with an adults only section

- concierge or butler service (might be asking too much with our budget, but a girl can wish)

- prefer to stick under 3k per person if possible

- bonus if it has a couples or anniversary package.

We are open to any location, but would prefer to NOT got to Mexico as we have been there once before, and I got very sick and even though it is unlikely to happen again, my anxiety jus can’t take it.

Thanks in advance for your suggestions! It will be our first solo trip since having 3 kids and we desperately need it.