51yo m4f #WA what I would like

Attraction is subjective and when we know, we know. But there is more to it for me, for this.

I like you smart, nerdy, with some kind of special interest or passion you like to share. It doesn’t have to be what you are paid to do. It just has to be you.

I also like drama. I own it. Not the kind that lands us in jail, or gets us caught. The kind that make life interesting, living outside the lines. Let’s get all dramatic on the down low.

Communication is good for me. I’ll text you and I’ll meet you in person. I like to fill awkward silences with mutual eye gazing. I like to touch your hand when no one is looking. I will tell you that I desire you.

Not afraid of your feelings. Or mine. Feelings come with the territory. They don’t have to be messy. They can be enjoyed.

I like all sorts of vibes. Like looks, we won’t know until we try. I am a caring dad type. Not into the toxic weird stuff that passes for “manhood”. If you are one of those corporate libertarian Jesus types, we might not get along.

Open on age, within reason. I’m not unrealistic. You can be if you want.

Keeping this simple, because we are married and that is complicated enough. Or, you are single, even more so. But I do have the time. Let’s try this.