Can NoFap make me Asexual/Aromantic?
I am 22M, I was born with Treacher Collin’s syndrome. It is a condition that has left me with a severely underdeveloped and unfortunate face. On top of that, I was born with an actual micro penis (about 1.3 inches erect, I know, incredibly unlucky).
I have been unable to get into relationships, go on dates or even have a flirtatious encounter with a woman. I don’t hate women, I don’t blame anybody, it’s just an unfortunate situation that has been placed upon me.
I know I’ll never have the pleasure of being with a woman, I’ve already accepted that reality, and watching pornography/fapping only leaves me feeling distraught. I want to become asexual, I want to move past sexual desires, they are only a nuisance in my case. I don’t want to spend my life hearing stupid lines like “just be yourself, someone will love you for what’s inside!”, nor do I want to spend my life in self pity and loathing women like a pathetic incel.
I reckon this would be a good analogy:
If you were a starving man that had the option to longer feel starvation, of course you’d take that option, right?
I’ve been on SSRIs (Paxil, 30mg) for some time, and they’ve only lowered my sex drive to an extent. I don’t get aroused as easily, but I still long for a female partner.
TLDR; So my question is, can NoFap potentially get me to a point of becoming asexual/aromantic?
Posted Mar 1, 2026, 1:47 AM UTC