What am i right now?

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Hi, I’m a male and I’m feeling confused about my sexuality.

For about 5–6 years, I thought I might be bi, mostly because of the videos I watched. In real life, I don’t really find guys attractive. I can appreciate their facial structure or body build, but I’ve never had a crush on a guy or wanted anything romantic with one.

When it comes to women, it feels different. I find women physically attractive and I can see myself dating one and being in a relationship. I feel more naturally drawn to women emotionally and romantically.

I’ve only been watching heterosexual videos now.

I’m not sure if the past interest was just curiosity, if sexuality can shift over time, or if I’m overthinking it. Has anyone gone through something similar?

Posted Mar 1, 2026, 1:49 AM UTC

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