My dick gets overstimulated really easily

Does anyone else experience this? Any advice Or story getting though it?

my dick gets overstimulated really easily. sex is already hard for me since I’m trans and have ocd, and the overstimulation makes it even harder.

anything other than fingers make my dick overstimulated and become totally desensitized. It would be so convenient and fun If I could get off from vibration or use a stroker or grind on the back of the prosthetic or frot or receive oral… or even just touch myself after doing any of those things. It’s so frustrating. the only way I can cum with my partner is if I jerk myself off without first getting overstimulated.

I’m jealous of all the fun new things we do to make him feel good, in contrast I feel like its a boring chore to get me off. I know he doesn’t feel this way, but it sucks that he has to be so uninvolved and it doesn’t feel as intimate as when we have sex that overstimulates me or gets him off. It would also be amazing to feel pleasure WHILE he does. if only I could find a vibrator that I could use while we focus on him.

vibrators feel good at first and then suddenly make me extremely desensitized. I feel like this is something I can work with.

right now my main hope is transitioning from only orgasming from my hand, to being able to with his also.

lowkey separate issue that I know a lot of us deal with… it sucks a lot of our sex doesn’t include any touching of my genitals. i think he sometimes forgets I don’t feel a lot from the prosthetic. Also I can’t cum most of the time, so it’s just become a habit not to try. we’re both new to sex and dating and we love each other so much. I will tell him next time I see him and I know he will absolutely care. I know he wants me to feel good too, I just tend to tell him no and that I want to focus on him so he stops asking haha

also im a little high, sorry if my writing isn’t the greatest.