I found inappropriate videos of me (F 17) on my bfs phone (M 17) thought me knowing he had them.
Last week when my bf stayed over for some days i looked though his hidden and found screen recording of me.
We have a good relationship with each other and we consensually share stuff with each other as we don't see each other to often due to the distance.
i have become drunk occasionally on call and we end up messing around. I don't know if i gave him consent to record me in my drunk state and i don't remember him mentioning recording them after it happens.
I don't know what to do and i didn't even watch them for that long before closing the phone i didn't want him to see because he was sleeping next to me. I wanted to mention it but didn't know how. I am thinking of telling him next time we see eachother in april for my 18th birthday but i don't know.
He told me not to look at his hidden photos and i thought id see something cring but didnt expect to to see this. I don't know how to tell him about this or bring it up im scared he might use an excuse that i let him but knowing him he whold brake down. I tried to brush it of and act like its not a big deal i feel like it isnt a bit but its still at the back of my mind.
What whold u do?
Posted Mar 1, 2026, 1:52 AM UTC