31 [M4F] #Pennsylvania - looking for LTR with female sub

31 y.o. male, 6' tall, 150 lbs, attorney. Single and looking for a LTR with a beautiful woman who is open to seeing other people as a couple or individually. Also looking for long-term play partners.

I recently moved to downtown Harrisburg (Pennsylvania) and have been attending munches and vanilla events to meet like-minded people in the area. I'm hoping to find someone my age or younger who is not already in a serious relationship (i.e. is single or only has FWB/less-than-serious relationships), enjoys similar things sexually as well as vanilla date-type activities, and is willing to discuss further over coffee or drinks.

I'm also interested in meeting potential play partners (regardless of age). I'm looking to build long-term relationships with kinky people, and the right primary partner/girlfriend should fit into those relationships with play partners.

My kinks are: spanking (you), hairpulling (yours), breathplay/choking (you), pegging (me), anal, dirty talk (calling you a slut, other light degradation), lingerie/heels (you wearing, me appreciating), cuddling, praising (you, when you've been a good girl). I have limited experience with BDSM but I'm open to trying (many) other kinks. I recently started attending kinky events, and I'd prefer attending with a partner.

I enjoy group play (couple swaps, FFM, MMF) and am bisexual in that context. I'm currently single - but when I'm not, I like when my partner is the center of attention (from me and another guy) - and I really like being the center of attention from two women (my partner and one other). I like watching my partner with another guy (although I'd prefer to join) - and I really like watching her play with another woman.

Feel free to PM me if anything here interests you. We could meet for coffee/dinner/drinks in downtown Harrisburg near my apt. (I can host), and I can also drive closer to you (but not too far; I'd prefer regular meetups).