I cum before her

Hey everyone

This is a cliché question and I am sure it has been asked before, but I will do it again, specifically for me situation. I regularly meet this woman. We are having sex. Its great. Both of us are sexually exploring each other and ourselves. We get along really well, when we are not having sex.

Now my question:

She really likes having penetrative sex. When we have penetrative sex she often would like to go faster and longer. And I enjoy it, but it is usually shortwhiled. I ejecualte after a few minutes. She doesnt like cunnilingus, so I make her cum with my fingers, which is great, she enjoys it BUT shes says that its not the same feeling as penetration and she would really like to experience that longer and faster. I proposed using toys, which she rejected saying "its not the same as feeling you inside me." I mean... I feel honored haha, really! But what do I do? I can edge and take breaks and slow down. And its nice for both of us. But its just not that, something she woukd like to experience harder, longer, faster penetrative sex with me. We communicate a lot. Its not a problem. But a nice to have.

Any advice how to do this?