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We’ll call the first girl corn and the second donut. I met corn 2 years ago at an event and kept on talking on instagram. Yesterday I decided to meet her and she freed her schedule for that reason. We go for an event and I go outside to get some fresh air where donut starts a conversation with me and she says she has some w*#d. I say I haven’t used it for roughly 8 months but I need to feel calm for the night. I go get a lighter from banana (person 3) who corn met at the party and was hanging out with. So they join us in the session, right.

Two other girls join as well. A female security guard comes over and catches donut and corn cause they’re using in that second and they’re asked to follow the guard. They all look at me and I’m supposed to help them right? So the girls that stayed behind say, let’s go with them because they’re gonna come for us in one way or another but one of the girls say no she’s with them (me). So they leave me to carry the burden.

I stay back hoping they’d come over, right? So I’d just give in but they don’t and I decide to call my friend. Atp I’m breaking down and she tells me yk what? There’s no point in all of you getting arrested, you’re my friend, and I need you to go home. So I do.

I’m sourcing advice and from all sources I’m getting feedback like don’t do it. It’s a legal process and all you can do is inform somebody close to them to get them help. I’m processing everything and I check corn’s instagram, and they’ve unfollowed me, so definitely they’re out.

PS The other girls made a “bonding” video over the situation basically saying they weren’t with us and they don’t know corn (cause she’s the one who got arrested and let them into the rotation). And funny thing is, they’re all new friends with corn and each other while I’m taking the back seat.

Ykw I’m bothered for leaving corn and donut in that situation but even more bothered for how female friendships are. Let me clarify. Imo I don’t expect the girls who claimed not to know corn after she got arrested, to get ‘close’ to her once she’s released.

AITA for moving the way I did?