Need help in choosing a kit!

Hello everyone, I'm a pretty advanced drummer and looking to buy a new electronic kit for practice at home. I currently have a Roland TD07DMK but it's not really my cup of tea. It doesn't support a real hi hat stand for example, and it's upgradability is bad.

What am I looking for?
- As close to the acoustic feel as possible
- Good upgradability
- A real hi-hat stand
- Space is not an issue. Compact doesn't feel natural, so it's ok if it's a bulky kit.

I do not really care about fancy modules. I don't need 1000+ different sounds. However, I would like enough ports for additional toms or cymbals like I mentioned. If that requires a more expensive module, so be it.

I'm looking to spend a maximum of 3000. Would love to hear your recommendations!