Which RFA member would you date in real life?

I’m sure this topic has already been discussed in this subreddit, but as a fairly new Mystic Messenger player, I wanted to pop the question myself. We all have our favorite RFA members, but I think it’s interesting to be realistic and ask which one would actually be suitable for us in real life, taking both our personalities and theirs into consideration.

For me, I think Yoosung would be the most suitable. I’m not going to focus on the Rika issue from his route—I’m thinking purely about his personality and how it compares to mine. His route isn’t my favorite, but I did genuinely enjoy it and even shed a few tears at the end. I don’t believe romantic partners need to be identical in every way (quite the opposite) but I do think they need to share enough common ground for the relationship to feel engaging and exciting. Yoosung and I have a lot of shared interests, and I can easily picture us going on cute dates doing things we both enjoy - mostly playing video games, binge-watching anime and enjoying romance movies together. As a fellow gamer, I completely understand his unhealthy obsession with LOLOL, and I can imagine us staying up until dawn, raging all night from time to time. At the same time, I’d hope we could gradually tone down our gaming habits and work toward more meaningful goals in life as a team. I really loved his profession in the after story, it used to be my dream career as well, although I ended up studying something else. I’d love to be the kind of partner who motivates him to become the best version of himself, and I’d want him to inspire me in the same way. He’s incredibly cute and loyal, almost to a fault. While I can’t say I’m physically attracted to him the way I am to Zen or Seven, I absolutely adore Yoosung’s voice, and having a nice voice is surprisingly important to me since I have a soft spot for good voices.

I’m quite introverted and live a simple, quiet life, so despite Zen and Seven being my favorite characters, I don’t think I could realistically share a life with someone like them. Zen is a celebrity, and that lifestyle rarely allows for peace or privacy. On top of that, he’s almost too handsome—I’d probably end up feeling too insecure about my appearance and hyper aware of every flaw next to someone perfect like him. That said, I genuinely believe Zen has one of the most beautiful hearts among the RFA members (so it’s not just about his looks). I deeply understand the way he thinks and feels, and if he were just an ordinary guy, I’d probably fall for him very hard.

As for Seven, he’s honestly too smart for me, and I don’t think I’d be able to keep up with his humor or match his chaotic energy. Being a secret agent would also mean constantly living in danger—hiding, running, never truly feeling safe. Still, as a fictional character, I absolutely love him. His looks and overall style are completely my type.

When it comes to Jumin Han, I simply don’t connect with him. His route made me feel uncomfortable. I don’ t mind slightly possessive partner, in fact I find it attractive within reasonable limits—but Jumin feels excessive and emotionally distant to me. We’re also opposites when it comes to emotional expression. I’m very sentimental and tend to feel things deeply, whereas he often comes across as emotionally restrained, almost robotic.

I haven’t played V’s or Ray’s routes yet, but based on what I know so far, I suspect they might also feel too intense or unconventional for me in a real-life relationship. I’d really love to hear how others see this—who do you think would realistically suit you, and why?