Is this workplace toxicity or am I overreacting? Need honest opinions.
Hi everyone, I need some honest opinions about something that happened to my friend in a fashion startup.
My friend joined a fashion brand as a designer. Before she joined, the founder seemed very sweet, supportive, and understanding. But after she started working there, things changed.
Some examples:
• The founder would come to the office at 1 PM, while employees came at 9 AM which is okay because mostly owners do that but
• One day she asked the staff to delay their lunch because she wanted updates first — even though they had already been working since morning.
• Over two months, my friend experienced constant controlling behavior and mental pressure.
• In one instance, when my friend asked a work-related question, the founder told her, “shut up, you b\*\*\*\*.”
After two months, my friend resigned and informed them properly.
Now here’s the shocking part.
Recently, the founder posted an Instagram reel to promote a new collection — a collection that my friend had designed. In that reel, she:
• Publicly mentioned my friend’s name.
• Claimed the collection wasn’t made by her.
• Framed herself as a struggling founder.
• Indirectly humiliated my friend for marketing purposes.
There was no proof shown, just statements.
My questions:
1. Is this normal startup culture or clear workplace toxicity?
2. Is publicly calling out a former employee like this ethical?
3. Should my friend take this as a lesson and move on, or take some action?
4. Has anyone experienced something similar in the fashion industry?
Would genuinely appreciate perspective.
Posted Mar 1, 2026, 2:35 PM UTC
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