40 [M4F] #Louisville #Cincinnato - Life is complicated, but our connection doesn't have to be

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Married, 40, and honestly just missing that feeling of being wanted and desired. The "dead bedroom" life has run its course, and I’m looking for a discreet, real connection with someone who misses that fire as much as I do. I'm looking for someone in the Louisville area (or Cincinnati—I'm there frequently) or with is a reasonable driving distance.

About me: 40, white, 5'6", dad bod, beard, green eyes. Clean, professional, easygoing. I enjoy live music, bourbon, sports (watching and playing), cooking, and getting lost in a great show. OPSEC is important to me. I’m not trying to change our lives, just to become the best part of each other’s day.

What I’m looking for: Ideally seeking a thick/curvy/bbw for a genuine AP connection with a slow-burn feel: flirty banter that carries us through the workday, “meetings” that turn into long lunches, and the evening escapes where the rest of the word just disappears. I want something consistent and long-term, where we both show up, put in the effort, and give each other what’s been missing in our lives.

If you’re in a similar place and craving something fun, exciting, and genuine- send me a message. Tell me your favorite guilty pleasure (song, show, food, whatever) to break the ice.

Posted Mar 1, 2026, 2:38 PM UTC

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