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Arisu_Randal

Are women not attracted to trans men?

NSFWNeed Advice :snoo_thoughtful:

I attended art school and even had to repeat a year, so I met a lot of new LGBT people there, naively thinking that I might finally gain some experience with girls, but I couldn't find a single one that was interested in dating trans men.

I met some girls who were interested in dating trans **women**, but not trans men.

All the trans men that I know have absolutely zero dating experience with women. All have many female friends but none want them.

I heard a lot of girls on the internet saying that they want a cis guy or a trans girl because of their genitalia, and I never came across the same words said about us trans men and our private parts.

I'm so desperate at this point. Why, even in LGBT irl spaces, can't I find a single woman attracted to my body? I guess vaginas are just way less appealing to women than penises...

I feel like I will never be able to pleasure or satisfy a woman because I don't have one. Will I have to get a penis to find a girlfriend? I don't crave one but I feel like it's the only way for me to be considered a dating option.

Posted Mar 1, 2026, 6:32 PM UTC

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