35 [M4F] - #Toronto #Online - The Three Pillars

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I know what I’m looking for. The connection will be almost instant. We will both be able to feel it. The conversation will flow effortlessly and transition between silly, serious and sexy without notice. I want a true friend above all else. Someone that I can talk to constantly throughout the day. I want to be excited and feel that flutter when I see that I have a message from you. I describe what I’m looking for as The Three Pillars.

Pillar 1 - Mundane Nonsense

This is probably the most basic of the pillars. Just random talk through the day about seemingly boring topics, but for some reason are not boring with the right person. Topics ranging from stupid shit that happens at work, to cat memes you found funny, or clouds you saw that looked like a dinosaur.

Pillar 2 - The Most Intensely Personal Conversation You Could Have

This is about all the really personal conversations that you don’t feel comfortable having with anyone else. Your ambitions for the future, your hopes for your life and your career. What is stressing you out? What is making you cry? What’s happening in your relationship? The deeply personal stuff.

Pillar 3 - Sexy Stuff

The random “you up?” messages late at night that tell me that you’re thinking about me. The dirty pic you send me out of the blue because you were turned on for some reason and had to share. Casual conversation that turns into intense sexting because that’s just what happens sometimes.

One thing I bring to the table is effort. I promise I will give you effort and affirmations, but I expect the same in return. Videos, texts, voice notes throughout the day. You will wake up to multiple messages from me, it’s jest the way I am.

About me: Some obligatory details that might be of interest. I’m 6’2, 220lbs as of this morning. Short dark brown hair, trimmed beard, hazel eyes, broad shoulders. I either workout or run everyday. I love sports, tv, music, comedy and especially movies. I see a new movie practically every week with a few guy friends.

About you: I’m not firm on any of this, so if you reasonated with my post please still reach out. I have found my strongest connections are with passionate, motivated corporate professional type women that take care of themselves. I’m very attracted to ambition and drive. I communicate well with energetic, extroverts. If this sounds like you, please message me.

Posted Mar 2, 2026, 4:02 PM UTC

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