26 [M4M] Are you here ba for convenient or genuinely looking at nagbabakasali?

Hello 👋 the people of this subbreddit it's me again. Suddenly having a thought lately na in this subbredit ba na 'to (or on any online dating app) genuinely na naghahanap for a potential date or nagiging tambay/ lurking just for the convenient without being upfront or true to your intentions. I've noticed that there are few ones that i talked in the past na hindi tugma sa description sa hinahanap nila if they're looking for genuine and transparency pero once na establish ang convo biglang naging distant na. Take note sila pa nag intiate to move outside sa reddit magusap then plan sa first meetup then suddenly. Jusko what's wrong mga pare? Then yun iba matipid pag mag chat or type like isang tao lang ang nakikipagusap. I'd rather to talk to chatgpt if ganyan lang mas sensible pa ang response. How ironic we want a constant, genuine, transparency or something serious but some people are have commitment issues or ano 'man unresolved issues sa sarili pa or may hidden agenda na gusto. (You know what i mean)

Anyway here again just to shoot my shot again with less expectation na (since upfront and intentional naman ang hanap ko)

Basic info about myself

26 years old

A college student (yes opo yes po)

5'6 height

Ave bod and fair skin

Manage your expectations kasi ave look (Beauty is subjective)

Not too masc not to fem (but honestly i don't put on label to that)

Old school person

Likes to listening to music a lot, sometimes i watch movies or series and read books.

Like deep and serious conversation but yet at the same time i like sharing memes rin HAHAHAH.

and empathetic

About you

Same height, taller than me or short king welcome po kayo dito mga Sir

Around same age or older than me (basta wag MINOR or MANCHILD)

Out na rin sana PLEASE LANG!! At walang Toxic Masculinity.

Around NCR (If willing ka mag byahe aba sige hahaha) para malapit lang

May Goal Driven and Vision in Life

I don't care if you're from Big 4 or Not (Personality matters)

Walang Fragile Masculinity (please lang)

Big Spoon (yes Small spoon ako haha)

Into Wholesome as well (please wag puro erbog nalang)

Not playing someone's else feeling and not Performative

Has Emotinal Intelligence hindi puro salita

Sana May Politically and Socially Aware (Non Nego)

Into consistency talaga

Family oriented (Yes important yun)

It's fine na hindi parehas ang mga hobbies or interests maybe we can share and learn from that

And hindi ghoster (na biglang distant sakit na ng karamihan sa modern dating 'yan eh)

Most important BE YOURSELF wag Performative please, love bomber or whatsoever

Bonus if you're a bisaya guy (legit ang cute ng accent nyo mga dong haha) pero everyone is welcome naman naman.

Other Details we can talk naman since ang haba na rin HAHAHAAH 😂😂 can we skip the "Hi and Hello" dapat may pangmalakasan ka na intro about yourself hindi ako si Rudy Baldwin na huhulaan ko pa 'yan. if you finish and talagang binasa mo yung post send me with your thoughtful intro of yourself.

Thank you for reading my post and I appreciate kapag when someone give their time na basahin. So that's it mga peeps of this subbreddit have a great day/week to all