Some Basics

I have written something like this before, but as I've been asked again recently, I'll rewrite.

I am a mature (close to 50) male Dominant - something I have been for many many years - starting out on things like MIrc chatroom's, before moving into other places.
This is something I consider is very natural to me and usually manifests itself in confident control, rather than forceful desperation.
As far as this profile is concerned, I am in the UK, but unless you literally live in my city, I am only really interested in chatting online.

I am seeking, put very simply, something longer term, and with someone willing.

I still occasionally play online with women I first met more than ten years ago.

To expand, I am sapiosexual, and crave an intelligent challenge - my aim is always to win.
The mind is the bodies best sexual organ and I do most of my best work inside of that parameter.
I have no interest in role-play however, and no interest in those that think that, "I promise i did it" will suffice.
To that end, an element of exhibitionism is usually helpful.

I have always been far more interested in humiliation than pain and the first step in that, is someone who admits they need help, or control, or whatever the trigger is.

However, mild pain like clips and clamps and the like is absolutely fine.

As long as you are (very strictly) 18+, your age is not important, I don't need your first language to be English, i don't need you to have OF model looks.
I do need you to want to engage.

In the past, I have controlled, food and diet, exercise, hair styling and make up, clothing, orgasms, social interactions and one time, someone bank account.

Hence, it is useful if you seek to become better and more useful than you currently are.

There is always more, but hopefully this is a useful introduction?