How are you with your partners porn habits?
We are both 24. He only downloaded twitter for this though he denies it. Sure he looks at other stuff but I know his main intention is to look at porn because everytime I’ve looked there’s always something saved and his X looks like porn clips if you scroll through videos that appear normal with the fist several posts but then switch into porn really quick. To my knowledge he’s been struggling with this since has has been a child due to early exposure which was really deep to him. It was heavy to hear this about many years ago so I can only imagine how it makes him feel. I do want to help but it’s also for myself as well. I get it, people watch porn. I used to be okay with it but in all honestly I’m not anymore. I can’t describe the feeling it gives me to know my boyfriend secretly looks at the pages of girls only fans on twitter. He doesn’t buy thank god. It’s all the body type of women that look nothing like me and I think that is what bothers me. Huge boobs, huge ass, thick bodies. I’m a petite woman… decent sized boobs but comparing myself it looks like I have nothing 😭 I love him I do but I don’t think him watching porn helps our relationship. We are sexually active and that’s where my confusion is too. It’s a daily thing for him to go on twitter and look at all sorts of things. It’s hard for him to talk about it too because he feels shameful to an extent but also believes it’s normal. He also does not like feeling lectured about it. Is it something I’d break up over? No I don’t think so but is it something I do mind? Yes. We do hardly seeeach other due to our job schedule conflict. I work 7:30-300 and he works 4pm-11pm. My days off are on the weekend and his are off on Wednesday and Thursday.
Posted Mar 2, 2026, 4:07 PM UTC