Update keeps bricking my laptop

I have a cheap little HP laptop that I use connected to my TV and I haven't been able to update it and it is getting annoying. I will atempt to update, I get the blue screen and then I have to uninstall the update and it works fine... but then the "windows needs to update" start popping up and I ignore them until it does it automatically. Rinse and repeat. is there a way to fix this? I am not a computer person really so don't be asking me to go into my BIOS and do this and that. Will I be forced to get yet another new laptop??