AIO for telling my(F24) boyfriend(M29) that I’m frustrated he keeps promising morning sex?

I’m gonna do my best to condense this but bear with me. I love my boyfriend, and I enjoy having sex with him. But he has a plethora of communication and sexual issues.

Recently we both decided to cut alcohol out of our lives and have been drinking kratom instead. Everytime he drinks kratom we cannot have sex that night, because his manhood goes numb. No biggie, it’s fine. Except everytime this happens he’ll tell me “can we just try again in the morning.”

Fine by me, but nearly everytime morning comes and I eventually wake up, he’ll just not initiate. And I know I could, but I usually don’t because whenever I do he usually rejects me.

This morning the same thing happened, he just cuddled me and we talked for a bit, and then he fell asleep again. Mind you, there’s also a time crunch because we both have work in the morning.

Today I just decided to get out of bed, cut my loss and make breakfast. He asked me what was wrong, andI told him bluntly “this is the third or fourth time you promised me we’d have morning sex, only to not do anything, at this point it’s pissing me off.”

He left shortly after without saying goodbye and slammed the door on me. I do think I couldve worded what I said better, and I feel really bad because I love him and don’t want him to feel embarrassed, but I just hit a breaking point because sex is just on his terms and I don’t really know what else to say.

I know that I’m not owed sex, I’m just frustrated that he’s done this multiple times I guess . I feel like an asshole, so AIO? What do I do.