I (32M) love when my wife (31F) gets hit on at bars/clubs

Wife and I are married with children. Over the years, our sex life dried up and we looked for other ways to liven it up.

We had pillow talks of our fantasies and when I revealed to her that I got turned on by the idea of other men hitting on her, she became intrigued.

It was nice to know that it turned both of us on.

After a while, this pillow talk became something more. We went on vacation and went to a night club. I sat back and watched as my wife sat at the bar alone and was hit on by multiple men. They laughed, flirted, and bought her drinks.

She would stop it at that and we would have the most amazing sex.

This would hold us off for a few months until we decided to do it again.

Every time we’ve done it, we pushed the boundaries a little further.

It began with touching/ rubbing one another’s arms, to butt grabs/pats, to even a peck on the lips.

As of right now, that’s as far as we’ve gone. I don’t know if we will take it further or not.