deep introspection on what an actual breakup might actually mean...

I've been reading through some of these comments and honestly, some of them seem really one-sided...lack of intimacy and sex shouldn't involve a breakup honestly and if people are discovering sexually based items and "accusing" their partner, it just adds to the "glow" of the relationship.

Insecurity is often a key factor of a breakup, porn shouldn't be a factor of a breakup....lack of integrity and faithfulness would set off alarm bells, if your not giving your partners the "broad spectrum" of the relationship, then honestly what the hell are you really doing here? ONLY accuse your partner if they are actually cheating on you or there is possibility of ground evidence that will set off pre-mature instincts...I didn't fight with my partner until she started bringing her boss and third party gossip into play when I realized there were "wave patterns" in her relationship(s)...it only started to hurt when it became more then "two people" unless you were polyamorous. There is so many key factors about slipping and twisting the knife people need to be EXTREMELY CAREFUL.