31 Male never dated...Am I cooked ?
I’ll be 31 in two weeks and I’ve never dated anyone. Am I cooked?
I’m 5’6 (167/168cm something like that) and below average looking. I live with my parents in Casablanca. I have a job(doesn't pay well because I'm just starting out my career for now in marketing and obviously we're underpaid as shit in this country). I work out here and there. I dress normal, nothing special.
I’ve only been on three dates in my life, all with the same girl. She rejected me toward the end. That was three years ago and since then I haven’t found anyone who’s even given me a real chance.
I don’t approach women because I can see it on their faces that they’re not interested. I don’t have friends either, so it’s not like I meet people naturally through a social circle.(Not really good at making friends to be honest and I don't find myself needing them not gonna lie)
I don’t offer much. I’m just a regular guy trying to get his life together and build a good future. I just want someone to build with, a partner in crime to grow alongside. But at this point the loneliness is hitting hard.
And please don’t hit me with “it’ll happen when you least expect it.” That’s something from movies. Real life doesn’t work like that.
Be honest. Is this still fixable at 31 or am I just done?
Posted Mar 3, 2026, 11:38 AM UTC