Hello there, hopeful pets. Northern California owner here. I'm looking for a long term partner/pet. Someone who is loyal, and loving and enjoys the dynamic. Are you an Independent or professional woman who wants something more? Someone who wants to be a home maker? Or maybe just be a happy Pet who wants to love and be loved? I am at a time in my life where I'm looking for permanence, comfort, and companionship.

I am an everyday soft Dom with rougher toys and tastes for play. I enjoy a soft petplay dynamic and respect time and place. What does that mean? Less cages and binding suits, more attitude and interactions. Different Collars for home and discrete for public. But if you want to be on a leash while on vacation in public? Done. This life is a two-way street, and mutual respect, fun, and boundaries are important to me. Especially if you have a career.

5'10, fit, physically demanding job, I make a good living, self sufficient, I protect, I provide, I fix problems, my job makes me very patient with others, I also can understand and work with personality disorders, nothing is a big deal unless you want it to be. Stress is exhausting and life is short. Need something for your work? Done. Like that 'want' item but cant budget it? Added to your present list. Have a problem stressing you out? I'll fix it, I'll handle it, I don't abandon my Pets. I do anything to keep my Pet happy and worry-free so she can give me peace when I come home. My responsibility is your care, your responsibility is me.

Things im NOT okay with; No lies, only brutal truths (Trust is paramount, Surprises excluded). No drug use and no serious criminal history. (If you have one of these, we may discuss it. No one is perfect.) No physical violence or threats (Use your words, bedroom exceptions). No Scat/Blood/permanent marking.

We all have a history which defines the people we ultimately become. I believe in supporting those histories rather than burying them. Everyone makes mistakes, has achievements, and has skills and beliefs based on their past interactions. My dynamic includes an open book with no judgements. Communication and growth moving forward, our past doesn't define us, it refines us.

My age range preference is 21-40. Competence, dedication, and submissiveness, and health are what I look for in a partner. One of my desires is growing a family, coming home and feeling like im your world. Im looking to start something online then go further for IRL and help facilitate relocation if we click. I'm open to discuss kinks, boundaries and expectations, and any other questions you may have of me in my DM's. If this sounds like something you're looking for, I'd love to chat with you.

36 [M4F] #California - Owner/Soft Dom looking for long term Pet/Sub/Partner who wants to be taken care of. Online starting, possible IRL.