Books like Broken and Mine by Darkwoe

So, as the title suggests, I am looking for a book with tropes in Broken and Mine. I loved that the fmc was in her 30's, wasn't a virgin and already had a loving husband and a child before the MMC ruined her life. I also love the Lima syndrome aspect and brutal noncon with no body betrayal. if possible I would love to read more stories on similar themes where-

FMC is in her 30s and not a virgin.

Had a loving husband or partner who was killed by MMC

doesnt develop stockholm

no body betrayal

lima syndrome

brutal noncon

I would prefer historical themes or war like themes but contemporary is fine. I have been looking for such books but no luck till now.

Bonus if the relationship is interracial like in Broken and Mine or if there is poc mmc or fmc.

I dont have any triggers but I hate sharing of fmc and watersports.