35 [M4F] #Online #Europe #Worldwide - Looking for a longterm Domme

I‘m Toby, a 35-year-old guy from Switzerland, reaching out in hopes of finding the right dominant woman to guide and own me. By day, I work in an IT/business role for the government (happy to share more once we connect). Outside of that, I’m passionate about traveling to immerse myself in new cultures, places, and people. I love hitting up music shows and festivals, and scuba diving is one of my favorite ways to unwind and explore.

At my core, I’m deeply submissive and crave handing over control to a strong, compassionate woman who values loyalty, obedience, and genuine growth in our dynamic. I’m drawn to the psychological side of femdom: the thrill of submitting, serving, and being owned by someone I truly connect with. That sense of being slowly trained and guided fills me with a warm, fulfilling pleasure.

Kink-wise, I’m into femdom broadly, with a focus on mental dominance. I’m a beginner in chastity and orgasm control (I own some cages but lack experience and I’m eager to learn step by step under your direction). Other interests include pegging and anal training, edging, humiliation, light CBT, bondage, protocols, latex, body worship, and completing tasks that please you. I’m curious about sounding and elements of feminization, and I’m open to explore more. Above all, my goal is to make my Domme happy through my devoted submission.

Hard limits: Nothing illegal, no scat/vomit, no animals, no permanent marks, nothing involving family/friends/job, and nothing unsafe. Soft boundaries can evolve with trust and communication.

If this resonates with you and you’re looking for a loyal sub to nurture and command, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s chat and see if we click, respectfully and with mutual excitement.

Thanks for reading, and hope your day is going great!