26m married, looking to fill that void

I miss the flirting and fun, it’s been so dead and dry for close to three years now and despite various attempts, multiple conversations it’s feels like I’m the only one pouring love into a two person commitment, I’m a giver and I don’t expect to have my affections returned but there’s a line that has to be drawn after this long, I’m after something fun, genuine, I love yappers, talk my ear off every little thing matters, tell me about that cool leaf you found or what a drawling slow day at work it was for you, lemme flirt withyou cause I like to know that someone is showing you your worth