im a single virgin craving intimacy, any advice on how to find a trustworthy guy to be my first?

let me preface this by saying PLEASE DO NOT DM ME OFFERING TO BE MY FIRST. that’s not what im looking for with this post specifically. and no offense, but i don’t really think i can trust a person i met on Reddit, sorry 😭

anyways, yeah just what the title says. i have just been very much in the mood lately and want to lose my virginity, but i do not have a boyfriend (or any guys that im talking to either) bc i don’t think i am very pretty (im overweight). so im wondering if anyone knows of a good way to find an actually trustworthy, decent guy to let be my first? idk if that’s even possible but i thought I’d try asking to see if anyone else has been in a similar situation and has a suggestion 😭