27 [F4M] Japan/Thailand/Online - Can I have a sweet bf for my birthday pls? :3

East Asia

Hi there, I am 27, turning 28 this month. I am married to my amazing husband of almost 9 years now. We have decided to sell our house to move to Asia for the time being. Hubby is looking to possibly go to university in either Thailand or Japan, so those are the most likely places to be semi-permanent. We are looking to date separately, but it would be nice if we could all get along and maybe have dinner together.

A little about me: chubby Asian-American (Thai), 5'2'' (157cm), 200lbs (90kg) actively working on my health, a little shy at first but very honest and vocal about what I'm feeling. Love to dress up and not afraid of showing off my body. Easygoing, playful, and love to be affectionate. Light chats and deep conversations are welcomed. I can only speak English and a tiny bit of Japanese, even though I get mistaken for Japanese/Thai. I love anime, gaming, knitting, and cooking. Also a little kinky, but you can ask more in DMs.

What I'm looking for: something serious where we talk every day, but doesn't have to be hours at a time. I would like to be very physical (cuddle?), so it would have to be an in-person relationship. I don't mind if we meet a couple times a year as long as it's longer than a few weeks. I understand everything doesn't last forever, so I'm here for a good time, whether it's a short-term or long-term relationship.

I'm going to be in Japan from March 26th to April 26th and then in Thailand after that until July 16th. Open to travelling to you if things get serious!

Please send an introduction about yourself. Closer to my age preferred, but go ahead and message if we have some things in common. Pics in profile, but we can exchange face pics in DMs!

Posted Mar 4, 2026, 11:55 AM UTC

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