Feeling unwanted even though I've a really good bf

I'm (20f) in a ldr and my bf lives in America. We met in October 2024 and got into a relationship after 10 days of texting each other. Ik it might seem too fast but he is just my type and I truly love him. He is always there for me in difficult times and does whatever I tell him to. No arguments or fights so far because we've made sure to communicate our feelings and try to fix the problem. Lately, I've been feeling down and undesirable because he rarely initiates anything... no surprises or small gestures. No flirting either... it's always me initiating and doing that stuff. Atp it's me who is maintaining that spark in our daily conversations.. if I don't do that, our conversations get monotonous...we talk abt the same old stuff. On 13th, I told him how I felt, and in his usual caring tone he said that he'd try to do better but I dont see much efforts... he did try to make date plans but we never got to do them. Now we're back to how it was.

I know he genuinely loves and cares for me but I want more from him... I tend to get insecure if I dont feel that I'm wanted.. idk what to do because I don't want to breakup with him. He's the only guy so far that didn't try to bring me down or made me feel bad about myself.