About fake dommes and scammers - subs only

Hi subbies, I am doing a research into 'fake' dommes, catfish and scammers and would love to hear your experience on it:
-what do you consider a scam in findom
- have you been catfished by men
- what constitutes a 'fake' domme for you

Reply in comments or DM me with your experiences, I just want to hear you out!

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