44 [M4F] #Loop - Married Man (ethically) needs your help!
I'm a naturally dominant 44-year old man and I'm very into praising. I have a sexy voice and would be sure to use it to make sure you knew how good you made me feel. I am 6'7" and have a dad bod coupled with a full head of longish hair, and a beard.
I have a lovely partner of 20 years. In the recent past, she has become largely asexual. I love her madly and that is not a deal breaker in my marriage. We do the best with what we have, and I don't press. Her issues are rooted in trauma and she deserves a safe space to heal. And she needs to understand that even while we were once kinky and she was/is my sub -- she's also so much more. She doesn't need to perform for me to have my love.
She does also realize that I do have needs that are going unmet. I am looking for someone to help. Want to cuddle and watch a movie? I’m an expert! Want to build a long term relationship? Awesome! Want to just help me with my physical needs? Dope! Let’s do it!
As any (responsible) Dom/human should, I am willing to ensure that proper measures are taken so that you feel safe. Vibe check, will share details as we get to know eachother a little bit. Im also happy to meet in a public place!
Anyway, I may not be as young or as fit as I used to be, but I am pulling myself out of a long funk that only other caregivers will likely understand, and someone that can be there for me in any way would be absolutely lovely.
I figured I would shoot my shot now that the whole world is on fire. If I can’t be kinder to myself now, then when?
Thank you
Posted Mar 4, 2026, 10:37 PM UTC