Is my friend a pedophile?

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My friend (28M) said that he watched teen porn (18) and looked it up frequently. He said he would fantasize that the girls in it are actually underage, like 13-14ish. He is into BDSM and things like “ex revenge porn, drunk girls, and caught/voyerism” stuff too.

He said he has never looked at actual child material but has had fantasized about consensual/non consensual sex with girls in that age range. Is this considered a pedophile? He has attraction to women his own age and even older, and looks at normal aged women. Is this a pedophile even if he still has attractions to women his own age too?

He said he thought it was because of the taboo aspect and that he assumed girls that age were tighter & less partners, etc.

Posted Mar 4, 2026, 10:40 PM UTC

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