Friend left me when another girl attacked me. Made em the villian and the other girls won't talk to me. Is losing them a blessing?

Opportunistic friend self centered and everybtitn is about her. One of those girls that makes me take 40 pics of her but doesn't ask do you want one.

We were out. She is very flirty with men I am always the girls girl. At a table with 2 married women 2 husbands 2 single guys. One of the married women out of no where for absolutely no reason got in my face and started yelling get the F out of my table Bitch. Why are you here. Bye bye bye bye shy shu. And I was shocked I was humiliated I walked away and I said a remark to her being hostile.

My friend wanted to stay and she responded o heard you started that fight and called her names.

The single man chased me and said my apologies this is common beahavior for the woman she gets insecure. Well anyways. I left the table my friend after accusing me of starting it I am walking out and the girl follows me! She then shoves me!!!! I run away at the point because j have never fought. I admit at this point I was angry at my friend and told her she never has my back, I got assaulted twice and I'm pretty sure it was because she was being flirty I wa just sitting there and she is fake and fair weather friend she then leaves me crying with no phone in a another state and I have to find a public bus to take home.

I get home and I admit I walk into the door crying yelling at her that she left me 2 and then left em alone and she said I was very mean and she dint see anything.

I decided I'm down with her and I left the next morning. While at the police station report g the incident she had told all tm two best friends it was me. I blocked her and I left and I said this is not what I want in my life.

Well when the cop called her SHE TOLD HIM I STARTED IT!!!! At this point she said she saw nothing and I'm shook to tm core I got assaulted I do not start anything and I didn't server that but my friend now picked the stranger twice.

The whole group of friends now won't talk to me and I am looking at these friendships and wondering if there are just superficial non substance friendships? Or are all of us 35+ looking tk get married and everyone is trying to get married

Note:

I am the girls girl in the group

Loyal

I am the type that gets mean if someone betrays me and it's a flaw I am reactive

She is the calm one that is an attorney and lies constantly but she is calm

I'm hurt and confused. But realizing I'm too old for all this and agree I shouldn't of been mean to her but I was in FIGHT OR FLIGHT heart pounding and I'm like omg I was alone and my gf not only left me didn't even grab me to be like it's ok let's go!!! AM I the asshole?