Being passed up on a promotion

I’m not even being considered for a supervisory role because I’m full time remote. I’m bummed because the girl that is being considered is essentially me (meaning we do similar quality of work, always taking on extras when needed, exceeding monthly goals) except she’s hybrid. Don’t get me wrong I love being able to wfh and be with my kid and watch him grow but I also want my career to develop as well. Not even being considered makes me feel like I have no identity outside of being a mom.