I'm not neurodivergent (I think, never did tests) but i'm starting to get really bummed on people finding so many deeper meanings behind questions, and i keep failing to see how my questions are seen as offensive.

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Sometimes i am curious about a random subject for no particular reason at all, which does sometimes include deep subjects (i think thats the right term idk) like feminism for instance, and i wanted to ask a question about issues people are having (i ofcourse understand that this might be rude towards some so i added a disclaimer that i am simply curious) but i still got a lot of people framing me as a sexist or incredibely ignorant for thinking that the question i asked was the only thing i thought women are having issues with (the question was regarding r### and how much physical strength actually comes in play)

Even in this question i can already feel that people will misinterpret this, and that even this very sentence i am saying is me thinking im a "good guy" while being very evil in reality or something.

(No offense to anyone btw, i definitely dont think anyone i mention here is out to get me personally)
Now my question here is whether these kinds of analogies on questions is A normal and B is it normal that i don't find it normal/that i don't analyze every question people ask