Pick me women on BD

What is the deal with the "pick me" women on BD lately?! Kizzi, Alesia, Elly... WHY are they doing this to us? First we have Kizzi who was deplorable with the STD bragging, how she treated V and Cathy... I mean really everything about her was disgusting. Then we have Elly who is a legendary pick me (I will say that so far she has been fine this season). Now we have Alesia, who has a boyfriend, telling Jenna she loves her meanwhile texting Eddy as soon as Jenna is happy about him kissing her. Like, you have a boyfriend why are you acting like such a pick me?!?! Drives me up the wall. And the fakeness towards Jenna.. UGH.

Just noticing a pattern, and it genuinely makes watching these shows unbearable at times.

DISCLAIMER: Obviously there's plenty of insufferable guys on BD - I'm talking about the girls here. As a woman, the backstabbing/cattiness over dudes drives me crazy!

Posted Mar 5, 2026, 2:26 AM UTC

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