AIO? advice needed!

Relationships 💕

so i have been talking to a man for a while who is really nice and humble and very much on the deen Alhamdulillah and we have been planning on getting our nikkah done soon. we were recently talking about travelling and he was talking about how he wants to travel the world and see most places before we get married. that kind of broke me because all my life my parents always told me that i’d get to travel as much as i want AFTER i get married and before that is to complete school, uni and build career and even other couples in general usually plan on travelling together and visit places for the first time. so when i brought it up to him he said we can travel together again but that didn’t sit right with me because what’s the point if one of you has already seen the place and the other one is experiencing it for the very first time. it’s like saying let’s watch a movie together but oh i’ve already watched it before but i’ll still watch it with you again like there isn’t that excitement like there is the first time you watch it and that kinda broke me to be honest. Is this actually normal or is it just me who seems to have a problem with it ?

Posted Mar 5, 2026, 2:31 AM UTC

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