34M4F Downtown Toronto (west end) - Looking for consistent FWB / someone to try Oasis
Hi r4r!
I'm checking out r4r on the recommendation of a friend who's had some successful/fun connections he's found here and I'm jealous lol! I'm looking for someone who is friendly, open, thoughtful, horny, doesn't take themselves too seriously, and is looking to build a great sexual connection.
Besides r4r, I'm also dating on the apps. Ultimately I'm looking for a long term relationship. I'd be open to a connection that I find here turning into that, but mostly what I'm after here is someone to explore with and try out Oasis (see my explore list below). Basically, I'm hoping to leverage this kink-friendly community to find an awesome sexual connection while still having rapport and mutual respect.
Sexually, I usually take the lead and bring a more dominant energy. But lately I've been fantasizing about what it would be like to switch. I'm not experienced with anything elaborate in the BDSM world but open to it! My comfort zone currently is definitely a more "rough but respectful" kinda vibe. I also love going down on women and focusing on my partner's pleasure. Getting my partner off gets me off. Some things I want to explore are: group play (MFF, MFM, even MMF!, other couples), going to Oasis (never been but want to try), switching or being submissive, and anal play (giving & receiving).
About me:
- Single / Male / 34
- White
- 6'2 - 170lbs - Athletic build
- I live alone downtown. I can host or travel to you
- I've been told I have a "handsome cock" - lol... I gotta say I agree but you can judge for yourself ;)
- Fun, outgoing, laid back, goofy, love to try new things.
- Short cut hair, no facial hair, impeccable hygiene
- DDF - tested recently and can share results
- I work in a high-paying professional role at a company that I love
Ideally you are:
- 25+
- height - don't care (tall girls welcome!!)
- Body type - thin/fit
- Good communicator, self-assured, open-minded, invested in doing this responsibly
- Experience level is not really important at all so long as you have the values in the bullet point above
- Sexually - is excited or curious about some (or all) of what I wrote above
- Lives somewhere in the transit accessible core
- Prefer ongoing / consistent, but open to one-offs if the vibes are right
If you think we might be a good fit, send me a message! I'm looking for someone that wants to exchange SFW pics (faceless), then chat for a bit to check the connection before exchanging anything NSFW. From there let's set up a coffee or a drink!
Posted Mar 5, 2026, 2:33 AM UTC