AITAH for blocking my friend because she was inconsiderate with my time? (Also try to get Charlotte Dobre in on this too lol)

For some context, me and her have known each other for about 10+ years and we recently just started back talking after 6 1/2 years December 2024. (I didn’t even know she had kids at the time) I ended up getting pregnant April 2025 and was due January 2026 the whole time of me being pregnant I have drove up to her house which is about 45 minutes away from mine and that’s a lot on my car because my car had had a lot of problems with it before now I have went to both of her sons birthday parties even picked up her sister on the way, and each of them were about an hour away from where I live, but I still made time for my friend she even started back talking to this girl who threw everything up in our face and came down here to see her, but never came to see me. She never came to my baby shower and she never came to the hospital when I had my son. Mind you we hadn’t spoken in seven years because I moved when I was about 14 years old for literally nine months I would say to Kentucky and she kind of just stopped talking to me in general. She didn’t start back talking to me until she lost our other friend and she just recently lost another friend as well so I think I’m just the last resort if you ask me. I (22F) and my friend (22F) let’s call her Taylor. so over the weekend about Saturday she asked me four days in advance if I could come pick her up so she can get her car detailed in the same city that I live in because she didn’t wanna wait the six hours which is understandable because her car was horrible and I said sure we just have to get everything done before 2 o’clock when my husband gets off work because me and him I have a lot to do today we had to do laundry. We had to throw out everything so we can move. We just had a lot to do today. That’s gonna take us the whole day you know so she says that’s fine. I’ll be down there in about 9:30 AM. I said cool. You know your car will be done by 2 o’clock so she literally does not leave the house until 11 and her house is about 45 minutes away from mine and I’m waiting for her. I get me and my son ready within 20 Minutes so she text me and says that she’s running late because she’s buying the phone and I asked her why couldn’t she do that after so she tells me to stop and that she’s coming so I let it slide. We go to the store before we go out to eat because she wanted to do something nice for my birthday mind. You the only reason why she was doing that was because she was down here and I was doing her a favor other than that I would’ve waited like six months for her to do anything for me for my birthday mind you year prior I got her nails done her feet done, and I did her hair and bought her Food so during that time she didn’t get to my city until 12 o’clock and we didn’t get done doing what we were doing until three, but she was still asking me to stop places and I stopped at the bank for her. I stopped at the store for her aunt and dropped her off at her aunts house because I had laundry to do she had the audacity to ask me if I could take her back to her car at like 10 o’clock at night so I said whatever and I took her and mind you as I was doing my laundry I went next-door to get my nails done and she got mad about that and the only reason why I know now that she was mad was because she texted me and said hey are you still taking me to get my nails done? I said you know what sure I’m just in the middle of getting my car fixed so she replies with I’ll just go by myself and I was just like I’m feeling a little sick too right now like it’s been a horrible night for me and she completely ignores it and says I’m going to bed and then I said I should feel better by Saturday of this week because that’s when she wanted to go and she said no I’ll just go by myself and then I said OK we’ll be like that then and she says what do you mean you went to the nail salon by yourself and I said it’s not about the salon it’s the way you’re speaking to me as if you have a problem with me or something. She had the audacity to say well I don’t have the gas to go to your city and so I said, were you expecting me to have the gas to go up there and pick you up and pay for your nails at the same time mind you we both just got our taxes so it has nothing to do with her not having money it just has something to do with her being lazy so she text me back and says have a good night. I’m done with this conversation after cussing at me and everything so would I be the a hole for blocking her because this is not the first time this has happened…

Posted Mar 5, 2026, 2:33 AM UTC · locked

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