How to force a breakup

So this is probably not a good idea, but I think I need it. I've realized the cycle of highs and lows and manipulation I am trapped in. But no matter what I do I know I will never leave because it isn't "bad enough".

How can I make my pwBPD break up with me??? I dont want to like cheat or hurt them. But working a lot or playing video games all day or something to spend less time with them and force discard.