In a tough spot. Feeling successful as a leader but doubts as a boss.
New-ish manager. 2 years in “middle management” 5 as a team leader.
Manufacturing industries throughout my employment.
(Mostly a rant)
I worked my way up in my industry and had some pretty good opportunities for myself. I always felt when I got to a place I could make change that I wanted to see when I was in the trenches I would do so. Always bat for my team so to speak.
I’m at that level now and try to foster my team’s growth no matter what. Recently, I’ve had a star player accept an offer for another department. One with more growth opportunities, higher pay, workable hours.
Here’s the thing. I helped her with the application, I prepped her for the interview, I sang her praises to the hiring team. I did it because she is truly a star player. I’m incredibly happy and want to see them succeed.
What sucks is that the road ahead is going to be bumpy. A huge gap to fill and a lot of training to be done for a replacement.
So… I guess I won as a leader. But it sucks being a boss 🤷🏻♂️
Posted Mar 5, 2026, 2:37 AM UTC