I hope my career trajectory isnt ruined
Im an engineer F(34)
I have had an amazing career doing amazing work all around the country.
I have been in heavy civil designing post Katrina flood walls and dams
I have been a structural lead leading 20m+ jobs and I have also been in between a rock and a hard place
I recently changed jobs and industries due to....family planning. Traveling all the time and being told I was struggling with infertility was a blow to my brain.
So I took a job locally and now manage civil/Structural coordination with utilities.
What is didnt know is that working for a huge utility is super corporate
Its nothing like my last job and thats all good but:
- My manager doesnt want me moving positions internally. Like he freaked out when I presented another position. (This being said I have been there for 7 months and they dont want people moving until after a 1 year)
2. Even though I still do work on the side I am so fucking bored at my job
- I also feel like I have to take my fertility seriously if that is also a priority in my life. This job isn't horrible. And pay is 150k a year. I just need to chill maybe?
I am looking for some advice or similar stories as to how others navigated this
Thanks in advance
Am I doomed? I know that sounds silly but I just dont want to be left behind.
The good thing out of this is I actually ahve time to study for my PE and finish my thesis so thats where my focus will be.
Posted Mar 5, 2026, 2:38 AM UTC